Hope is the trust in the fairness and fulfillment of our desires. Hope is the fuel that drives us to go out and get the thing we desire. But the moment we pin our hope on others, it transpires into expectation, a furtive demand. If not met, it stifles and chokes all our energy channels and perches as resentment.
Can we persuade ourselves to not give in to our inherent tendencies? Can we draw the line between wish and want?
Follow episode 8th of my podcast to know how.
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56 comments on “ऊर्जा अपरिमित – Episode 8”
Beautiful power ful amalgmation of thought,sensitivity to relationship,gratitude to nature, pets and all friend a refined special style. Grateful grateful, gratitude to God, Nature, pets aaspass ka atmosphere and all….. Very powerful💪👍. Thanks for sharing making me part of the whole process, as I felt so while listening. True to all gratitude to all
Thanks dear Nidhi. Regards
Thanks for lightening our heart’s burden. What a tangled web do we weave in expectations! True !
Regards
Our expectations are cause of our disappoints, yes we all know that, but few of us know to handle these vibrations. Your insightful expressions not only give inspiration to stay positive, at the same time shows the way, how we can get rid of negative vibrations…..
Thanks Nakul, you are always amongst the first few to listen and compliment. Am grateful. Regards
Wow!! Wonderful message, that too amazingly said… Your contributions, towards the MANKIND, are GREAT and very easy to understand.
Thanks Mr Malhotra for your compliments. Regards
Once again you have convincingly brought home the point that we’re capable of transforming ourselves by understanding the true nature of our own drives and impulses. Your podcasts are a fine blend of clear thinking and sweet persuasion. One feels truly ‘enlightened’ after each episode. Expectations in every relationship directly influence our happiness. There’s an urgent need to understand them. It’s indeed an important step in our journey of self-exploration. Thanks once again for your affectionate mentoring!
Pranam sir, thank you so much. Regards
I liked ‘Dene ka Sukh’. Jab hum dena seekh jate hain to expectations bhi puri hone lagti hain. That’s true. It’s excellent. Thanks for sharing ma’am!!
Warm regards!!🌹🙏🙏🌹
Thanks Anjali. Regards
I appreciated your lecture and felt as if you were speaking directly to me🙏The problem of expectations occurs when we expect something to happen without good reasons for that expectation. If I believe that my expectations alone will bring me what I want, I am using magical thinking and setting myself up for disappointment.
Thanks Mr Pankaj, thanks for insightful comments. Regards
Loved each and everyword….waiting for the next one..regards
Thanks dear Priyanka. Regards
It’s a really amazing and wonderful message
With continuous conscious efforts and practice, we can definitely learn to handle our expectations. Real joy definitely lies in gifting a smile to someone. That happy face gives a long lasting satisfaction. Your guidance really helps us to increase our energy level by following your valuable tips mam. Warm regards.
Thanks Anitaji, alwaya look forward to your comments. Regards
It’s a really amazing and wonderful message
Thanks Mr Naveen. Regards
This lecture was very beautiful. It was amazing and it felt like you were just sitting next to me and saying all that to me. You’re such a pure soul . Grateful to you for this episode and eagerly waiting for the next.
Thanks Meenuji. Regards
Thanks with deep regards
I appreciate yours amazing thoughts I hope with these Thoughts I’m the best possible version of myself.Thanks & Regards
Bless you Radhika. Regards
We give our key to happiness to someone else, is actually the crux of life. When we realize our happiness within we become free. Open your mind, it’s beautiful inside. I really appreciate the way you have shown a mirror with such simplicity, it’s like a guiding star. Thanks for such an initiative and it reflects your dedication and ocean of knowledge.
Warm Regards
MANISH SINDHWANI
Bahut baria.kash insaan bhi nature ki tarah sub ko unconditional pyar deta without any expectations to duniya me dukh naam ki koi anubhuti na hoti.Asli khushi to dene me hai na ki lene me
A beautiful piece of sheer wisdom interwoven with exquisite poetic strands, it inspires to shed petty concerns of ego and expectations under whose burden lie burried scores of tender feelings and relationships! How effortlessly you trace the subtleties of human mind! Really commendable! Keep on leading and guiding us on the path of happiness with same fervor and love. Thanks for sharing your precious thoughts, Ma’am.
वाह जी!आप फिर से एक बार हमारी expectations पर ख़रे उतरे एक और important emotion को इतने अच्छे से समझा कर और उस से पार कैसे होना है बता कर।
Expectations,अपेक्षाएं -सच में पूरी हों तो बहुत ख़ुशी और सुकून मिलता है पर न पूरी हों तो हमें क्रोध, दुःख,तकलीफ, उदासी दे जाती हैं।फिर से हम lower and higher emotions के चक्कर में पड़ जाते हैं।आपने ठीक कहा अपेक्षाओं का अस्तित्व मन में होता है।जैसे ही वो मन में पलती हैं वो आस बन जाती हैं और अगर पूरी नहीं हुईं तो हम judgemental हो जाते हैं। हर संबंध में जहां आस्था,प्यार,स्नेह और विश्वास होता है वहीं expectations भी होती हैं।मेरे ख्याल में उस संबंध में वो expectations कभी पूरी हुई होती हैं तभी उसी रिश्ते से बार- बार अपेक्षा की जाती है,जो पूरी नहीं करता उस से कोई अपेक्षा करता भी नहीं।
ख़्वाब,उम्मीद,तमन्ना, ताल्लुक,रिश्ते
जान ले लेते हैं, आख़िर ये सहारे सारे
बिलकुल सही कहा आपने की हम अपनी ख़ुशी की चाबी दूसरों के हाथ में थमा देते हैं।कितना अच्छा हो अगर हम ये चाबी अपने पास ही रखें।हमारे रिमोट का कंट्रोल हमारे ही पास हो।
हम lower vibrations में जा कर ये न सोचें की हमारे साथ तो ग़लत ही होना है ।नहीं तो वो भी हो जाता है।हम सब ने ही कितनी बार रिश्तों को expectations की भेंट चढ़ते हुए देखा है।
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ग़ालिब का शे’र भी आपने क्या सही चुना है
जब तवक्को ही मिट गई ग़ालिब
क्यों किसी का ग़िला करे कोई
वाकई सूक्ष्म -सा संतुलन चाहिए और दोतरफ़ा संवेदनशीलता।बस तवक्को ही तो ख़त्म करनी है।
और फिर ये कि
करीब इतना रहो कि रिश्तों में प्यार रहे,
दूर भी इतना रहो कि आने का इंतज़ार रहे….
ये तो तभी संभव है जबकि रिश्तों में स्पेस मिले नहीं तो दम घुटने लगता है । Basically किसी भी चीज़ में expectations न हों।
जिसे ये बात समझ आ गई वो तो फिर कहता है कि
किस तवक़्क़ो पे कोई बाग़-ओ-मकाँ बनवाए
क़ब्र में एक न काम आएगा बेकार हैं सब
और आपने जो अन्य प्राणियों और प्रकृति का जो उदाहरण दिया है उनके द्वारा unconditionally देना ही देना- उन से हमें सीखना चाहिए।They are Givers in true sense.क्या ख़ूब कहा है आपने रिश्तों के तंत बड़े delicate होते हैं,उनकी गिरह बड़ी पेचीदी होती हैं।Sense of giving बड़ी enriching है तो क्यूं निरंतर मांगों से बेंधे रिश्तों को?थोड़ा और दे कर देखें रिश्तों को।देने का सुख हमें उन्मुक्तता की ऊंची vibrations से नवाज़ता है।
Salute to you
फ़िर से – problem और solution- एक दमदार प्रस्तुति से।
So the Gist is
If you expect nothing from somebody you are never disappointed…
इंतज़ार रहेगा अगली प्रस्तुति का…🙏
Thanks a lot for your illustrative and comprehensive comments. Regards
Thanks Anjali, am grateful for such sensitive observations. Regards
इंसाँ की ख़्वाहिशों की कोई इंतिहा नहीं
दो गज़ ज़मीं भी चाहिए दो गज़ कफ़न के बाद।
Wonderfully illustrated.
🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thanks Sir. Regards
Amazing episode once again mam..how to handle our relationships with least expectations n how important our gratitude towards pets ,nature n God.. rightly said that joy of giving leads to the happier life..grt thanks to you for reminding us small small things of our day to day life.. will be waiting for the next one
Thanks a lot Gaytriji. Regards
You have rightly explained how to be happy in life by following some important principles. The secret of happiness is to give and give unconditional love like Nature and pets. One should not give the key to one’s happiness to others. One gets immense
satisfaction after giving. Thanks for sharing such valuable thoughts.
Thanks Madam. Regards
The efforts you are putting in to spread so much positivity is commendable….Great learnings….thank you….
Thanks Vimalaji. Regards
Another fine episode full of worldly wisdom. Ma’am, you r raising your own bar with every episode. Choice of words is superb, so are phrases, one liners and quotes from poems & ghazals which have been interspersed beautifully in the narrative. Giving, without expecting anything in return, is like Mother Nature who gives and gives and then forgives and the man gets and gets and then forgets. Looking forward to next episode.
Warm regards.
Pranam jee, your silence was causing concern. Thank you so much for encouraging words. Regards
Another heart touching insight on our daily life about expectations. Expressed so well with shayary and quotes. Every episode making so positive. Every episode tasing bar. Thanks for sharing and in waiting for next.
Take care
Warm Regards
Thanks Bhai, you never miss listening to it and also encouraging . Regards
It’s a really powerfull message.
Exellent madam
Thanks Saroj ji. Regards
Ma’am you are truly a great personality who never fails to give us such beautiful message. Eagerly waiting for the next one . The content is just wow . Your every episode enlightens us.
Regards
Thanks madam, good to heqr from you. Take care. Regards
No words about thoughts ….Shared
It was really a great experience, I loved being a part of this wonderful initiative .I really appreciate the way in which you made us realise that we must balance our expectations and relationships.
It was really a Soothing & Positive session .
Warm Regards
Thanks Rajeshji. Regards
नमस्कार मैडम
अनंत ऊर्जा से लबरेज यह पोस्ट निश्चित रूप से मन को शांति प्रदान करने वाली है l आपका कथन बिल्कुल सही है कि ज्यादा उम्मीद भी दुःखों का कारण है l यदि अपनी जरूरतों को सीमित रखने में सक्षम हो जाएं तो कष्ट ही नहीं रहें l
अगले पोस्ट की प्रतीक्षा में
सादर भूषण
Pranam Mr Bhushanpal. Regards
Namskar ma’am, it’s really wonderful and powerful massage. Loved your beautiful words!!
Namskar ma’am, it’s really wonderful and powerful massage. Loved your beautiful words!!
Expectation – 👍👍👍👍👍
जिंदगी ही इसी पर आधारित है, हम हर रोज़ सोते है इस उम्मीद में कल फिर उठेंगे और फिर नया सेवरा नई उम्मीद के साथ जीना शुरू कर देते है… “जीवन उम्मीद है”
Its a pleasure to listen to your well worded thoughts and makes me feel so proud of you..
Love and blessings..